Lily Allen’s active Raya profile is revealed as marriage to David Harbour falls apart

Lily Allen has break up with husband and Stranger Issues actor David Harbour, a buddy instructed DailyMail.com, because the singer was noticed on the celeb relationship app Raya.

Rumors have swirled for months that Allen and Harbour’s five-year relationship was on the rocks, however a buddy of the Smile hitmaker confirmed that they’ve formally ‘separated’.

The information comes as a feminine supply unconnected to Allen shared with DailyMail.com an image of the singer’s profile on the high-end relationship app frequented by the wealthy and well-known.

The 39-year-old had a brief, tongue-in-cheek bio on her profile saying she was ‘In search of somebody to begin {couples} remedy with,’ and indicated that she is ‘visiting Los Angeles from New York’.

The English singer-songwriter’s Raya profile popped up final week for customers who’ve instructed the app they’re ladies all in favour of relationship different ladies.

It’s unclear what Allen’s preferences are on the app, and whether or not she was trying to find a romantic companion or simply platonic friendship.  

The buddy confirmed Allen had a profile on Raya, however stated the singer wasn’t actively trying to find dates, partly as a result of she hasn’t but divorced and ‘she takes marriage very significantly’.

A rep for Harbour, 49, who Allen has stated she met on Raya, didn’t instantly return a name for remark. 

Allen has beforehand spoken about assembly Harbour, 49, on Raya.

Her reactivated account has come to mild simply days after her admission on her podcast on Monday that she is ‘not in an amazing place mentally’ and ‘bored of males’. 

She has beforehand spoken out about having sexual experiences with ladies – together with hiring a ‘high-class hooker’ three or 4 occasions ‘through the breakdown of my final marriage’, in response to her 2018 autobiography.

The British mother-of-two has been experimenting in different methods additionally, revealing in October that she began promoting pictures of her ft on her OnlyFans web page, on the recommendation of her pedicurist.

She wrote on social media web site X that she made more cash from ‘having 1,000 individuals subscribe to photos of your ft’ than from the royalties on her ‘practically 8 million month-to-month listeners’ on music app Spotify.

In latest video clips of her podcast, Miss Me?, Allen’s left hand was lacking the massive diamond David gave her in 2019 and she or he introduced she was ‘bored of males’, that she had been going to {couples} remedy along with her husband

The couple have been stricken by marriage bother rumors after she revealed she is ‘not in an amazing place mentally’ 

Her buddy confirming the break up with Harbour, 49, vindicates followers who had been pointing to varied clues that the couple’s relationship was coming to an finish. 

In latest video clips of her podcast, Miss Me?, Allen’s left hand was lacking the massive diamond David gave her in 2019, and she or he was with out it when she attended an habit consciousness occasion in London earlier this month.

Allen unfollowed Harbor on social media final yr, and a supply claimed to The Solar on the time that the couple had been ‘dwelling separate lives’. 

She introduced on the December 16 episode of her twice-weekly BBC podcast that she was ‘bored of males’, that she had been going to {couples} remedy with Harbour, and that whereas ‘going by means of some troublesome stuff’ she had ‘screamed’ at her youngsters.

‘I exploded and screamed on the youngsters. I used to be like, ‘I am unable to deal with this in the intervening time; I am going by means of a lot, I would like you two to behave yourselves.”

She then defined to them: ‘We’re all going by means of some troublesome stuff in the intervening time, so I apologize, and I am sorry.’

Since tying the knot in September 2020, through the preliminary wave of Covid-19, David has taken on the function of stepfather to Lily’s two daughters

The singer, 39, had been going to remedy to work by means of issues after relocating to New York along with her kids Ethel Mary, 13, and Marnie Rose, 11, and husband David Harbour

She instructed buddy and co-host Miquita Oliver: ‘I am having a little bit of a tough time of it in the intervening time, however I am making an attempt to soldier on.’

In one other section she described Aaron Batterham, the boyfriend of her mom Alison, as a ‘pillar of help’ and ‘the primary male particular person in my life that’s nice and supportive to me’ – with no point out of David.

She and the New York-based actor had been first linked in January 2019 after they attended the BAFTA Tea Get together collectively. She was noticed with an engagement ring the identical yr.

Talking on BBC’s The Jonathan Ross Present final yr, Allen stated she met Harbour on Raya, the place his profile image confirmed him in costume as his Stranger Issues character Chief Jim Hopper – however she did not acknowledge him.

‘I did not know who he was,’ she admitted. ‘I assumed he was similar to a horny policeman from a actuality TV present.’

They tied the knot in September 2020, whereas spending the primary Covid-19 lockdown collectively in New York.

Earlier than a buddy confirmed Allen had break up along with her husband, she began dropping hints there’s of bother in her house life. Lily appeared stony confronted when David kissed her throughout a screening for Dreamland again in March 2023

In one other section she described Aaron Batterham (pictured), the boyfriend of her mom Alison, as a ‘pillar of help’ and ‘the primary male particular person in my life that’s nice and supportive to me’ – with no point out of David 

Harbor has taken on the function of stepfather to Lily’s two daughters, Ethel, 13, and Marnie, 11, from her relationship with builder-decorator Sam Cooper, to whom she was married from 2011 to 2018.

The Smile hitmaker additionally added on her present that struggles along with her psychological well being have impacted her consuming, saying she by no means feels hungry.

‘I have been going by means of a tricky time over the previous couple of months and my consuming has develop into a problem,’ Allen stated.

‘My therapist and I speak about it and she or he says ‘How lengthy has this been occurring?’ And I stated, ‘Nicely, about three years actually.’ And she or he’s like, ‘OK, why have not you talked about it earlier than?’

‘And it is not as a result of I am mendacity about it. It is simply because it has not appeared on the prime of the listing of essential issues that I would like to speak about, however clearly it’s.

‘I am not likely good at speaking concerning the larger image. That is one thing about my ADHD as nicely, that I do not hyperlink issues.

In October the British mother-of-two revealed she has been promoting pictures of her ft on her OnlyFans web page, on the recommendation of her pedicurist

‘And in addition, my physique and my mind are two very separate issues to me. I do know lots of people really feel these two issues are very linked to one another, however for me it’s totally completely different. I spend a whole lot of time in my head, and never a whole lot of time fascinated about my physique.

‘I am actually not in an amazing place mentally in the intervening time, and I am not consuming. I am not hungry. 

‘I clearly am hungry, however my physique and mind are so disconnected from one another that my physique… the messages of starvation will not be going by means of my physique to my mind.

‘I am not avoiding meals, I am simply not fascinated about it as a result of I am so in my head. My physique’s, like, just a few steps behind me.’

Allen has acquired reward for sharing her private, weak moments on her present, and in earlier episodes has stated she needs to ‘normalize’ subjects individuals really feel disgrace about.

She talked about her use of a intercourse employee throughout a Miss Me? episode in June this yr.

‘Throughout the breakdown of my final marriage, I used to be very promiscuous and experimental, and I… had intercourse with feminine prostitutes,’ she stated, correcting herself to say ‘intercourse employees’.

‘I knew that this factor existed and that I might been behaving this fashion, and I assumed that was going to be revealed, so I assumed I might take a little bit of the facility again and reveal it myself [in her book, My Thoughts Exactly].’

She later joked that she hoped Harbour wasn’t listening, and described herself as presently sexually unadventurous and ‘vanilla’.

However she instructed the Guardian in 2018 that she received ‘fairly brazen’ performing exterior her first marriage.

‘I feel I simply did not care… Really, perhaps I did wish to get caught, perhaps I wished Sam to rescue me. I wished him to search out out about this stuff and say, ‘Sufficient is sufficient, you are coming house.’

Allen made headlines in October when she revealed she had been promoting photos of her ft on-line – and acquired a coveted 5 star score on foot fetish web site wikiFeet.

She stated on her podcast that she began an OnlyFans account over the summer season after her pedicurist instructed her she might become profitable from her ‘good ft’.

She posted a hyperlink to her OnlyFans account on her X profile together with photos of her ft, prompting one person to tweet: ‘Think about being one of many largest pop stars/musicians in Europe after which being diminished to this.’

The witty star clapped again: ‘Think about being an artist and having practically 8 million month-to-month listeners on Spotify however incomes more cash from having 1,000 individuals subscribe to photos of your ft. Do not hate the participant, hate the sport.’

Allen fees $10 per 30 days on her OnlyFans account, which might usher in $10,000 per 30 days from 1,000 subscribers.

Spotify says she has 7.5 million month-to-month listeners, with the app often paying round $.003 and $.005 per stream to artists, giving an approximate complete of between $22,500 and $37,500.