I’m a dominatrix of 30 years but this sandwich kink surprised even me

There’s not a lot in my line of labor as a dominatrix that leaves me speechless. I’ve seen grownup infants and custard-covered bare males, however when a possible shopper reached out to me and talked about having a 30 12 months sandwich fetish, I’ll admit I used to be flabbergasted.

Samantha – who’s appropriately often known as Samantha Sandwich on-line – first acquired in contact on X a year-and-a-half in the past.

Once I perused her shadowy profile picture, I grew to become bemused at her bread-based tweets which merely embrace photos of Warburton’s wholemeal bread, with captions like ‘I’m preparing’ or ‘I must clean up’.

I found that Samantha, who is definitely heterosexual cis man, would get turned on by her genitals touching sandwiches – it brings her nice sexual pleasure – I suppose it’s a type of sitophilia, the place somebody is sexually aroused by meals. She enjoys dressing up as a lady, utilizing she/her pronouns, to behave out her sexual fantasies.

So per week after first chatting, we determined to have this video name, not along with her as a paying buyer, however relatively so I may perceive her sexual proclivities and, possibly sooner or later, turn into a part of her sarnie fantasy.

And I had so many questions. ‘Do you… cum within the sandwich?’ I discovered myself asking over our 30-minute zoom name. By no means did I believe a sentence like that would depart my lips.

‘In fact,’ Samantha, 45, replied. ‘After which what do you do with it?’ I ask. She appears to be like at me as if I simply requested the dumbest query ever. ‘Bin it,’ she replies. ‘I lose all curiosity in it after that.’

I nod enthusiastically, watching her BLT-shaped earrings dangle as she shifts in her seat sporting a black PVC skirt and clingy purple tank prime.

Subsequent, I ask Samantha to point out me precisely what she does along with her bits of bread to know how they bring about her such nice sexual pleasure.

She obliges, laying out 4 buttered slices, stacking them on prime of one another and protecting them in clingfilm. ‘I desire doorstep,’ she provides. Clearly thicker is healthier. She then slits a gap within the clingfilm with a pen knife between slices two and three, and proceeds to push her impressively huge c**okay into it, as if it was the filling.

Whereas the clingfilm across the sandwich helps it keep on her penis, she then secures it by pulling the bread shut, along with her member nonetheless stuffed inside, so it’s pressed towards her abdomen.

‘That is what I name a sandwich chastity belt,’ Samantha explains. ‘I make one for my willy and as soon as I insert my penis I wrap cling movie round my waist and crotch to make a good nappy which holds it in place, retaining me aroused however with no entry to myself.’ 

‘The butter warms and moulds itself to me, then I stroll round the home like this,’ she provides. ‘It’s like fixed edging.’

It does look interesting, I’ll admit. It should be heat in addition to appetising. However the place do I come into all of this (so to talk)?

‘I’d like a mistress to observe me cum in a sandwich, then begin afresh with a brand new one. That will be the dream,’ Samnatha tells me.

‘One other dream is to discover a mistress whose toes I can kiss whereas she eats a sandwich.’ Up prick my ears: a job that entails carbs and foot worship feels like a complete deal with.

However there’s one other twist to Samantha’s story, as she tells me she’s been heterosexual relationship along with her spouse for 13 years – my jaw virtually hits the ground when she tells me on the decision. The girlfriend has no concept about her sexual proclivity for the lunchtime staple. 

‘She is aware of I don’t eat sandwiches, however she’s by no means put two and two collectively,’ Samantha says. And why would she? My husband doesn’t eat beetroot, however it’s by no means occurred to me that maybe he prefers to shove his dick in it. Till now, not less than.

Samantha admits she may be very frightened of her companion discovering out, so hides all her outfits within the loft so her girlfriend, who’s frightened of spiders, received’t discover them. It’s a disgrace as a result of stuff you received’t share along with your important different are on the dishonest continuum, I believe – I all the time attempt to encourage my shoppers to share in the event that they really feel they will.

For her companion that’s 13 years of mendacity to come back to phrases with, however equally, she could suppose it was fascinating. If my husband stated that to me, I’d counsel we simply eat sandwiches collectively.

Whereas cross-dressing is one thing I see fairly usually, I inform Samantha I can’t say the identical for sarnie fantasies. I used to be eager to know if there was an entire sandwich worship neighborhood or if she was the one particular person she knew of with this sort of fetish. Regardless of having 2,700 followers on X, Samantha admits she thinks she’s the one one.

‘A lot of them are vanilla. I believe I simply amuse them,’ she says. ‘And no, the closest I’ve seen is splosh fetishists, and possibly the ABDL (grownup child, diaper lover) neighborhood, who wish to shove their dicks in nappies to really feel protected and encased.’

The entire time I’m listening to her reveal particulars about her life, I wish to ask Samantha if she needs her sexual fantasies have been extra mainstream, however I can’t consider find out how to phrase the query in a manner that doesn’t sound offensive. I doubt she’d say sure anyway.

As an alternative, I accept discovering out the place she thinks this fetish got here from.

‘I don’t know why, however I’ve by no means eaten sandwiches and to today I nonetheless don’t,’ she says. ‘A sandwich for most individuals is a handy snack. For me it’s an emblem of female energy and authority which I respect and bow all the way down to.’

Samantha goes on to clarify that she first acquired aroused as a teen when a woman she fancied ate a sandwich. Watching her mouth transfer, figuring out it was additionally used for oral intercourse, made the entire thing really feel actually erotic.

Later, she made the ‘final discovery’ by inserting her penis in a sandwich. ‘I slowly masturbated myself with it. The feeling was wonderful,’ she remembers.

From there the fetish grew and Samantha discovered herself cross-dressing and sporting shiny fetish garments comprised of PVC. 

‘I imagined lovely fashions consuming sandwiches in that apparel, and it wasn’t lengthy earlier than I fantasised about being made to decorate like a woman and beg for a sandwich,’ she explains.

You’d suppose this all may be trigger for concern for some individuals, however not Samantha.

She shrugs into the digicam, utterly unphased by her needs, telling me she was simply overjoyed by what she’d found and thinks it’s marvellous. It’s been a relentless supply of pleasure and luxury to her all through her life.

I additionally discover myself hoping that I get to go to Samantha and convey her candy, unusual goals to life.

Though I’m unsure I’ll ever take a look at my coronation hen meal deal the identical manner once more.

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