There are over 100,000 kids and younger folks residing in care within the UK, both with foster carers, in residential kids’s houses or in different settings. Flock, at present enjoying on the Soho Theatre in London earlier than embarking on a UK tour, follows the lives of two younger individuals who have frolicked in care, Robbie (Jamie Ankrah) and his older sister Cel (Gabriella Leonardi).
The play was written by Lin Coughlan and directed by Jim Pope after three years of improvement with Elevating the Roof, a undertaking working with younger folks aged 16-25 who’ve lived in care, to develop fictional narratives knowledgeable by their very own lives.
The voices of younger individuals who have lived in care give this play its beating coronary heart. They usually’re additionally vitally necessary for genuine illustration of first-hand care-stories which might be notably lacking in mainstream media.
Traditionally, characters who’ve grown up within the care system are typically represented as villains or criminals in in style tradition. Assume Paul Spector in The Fall, or Loki from the Marvel universe. Exceptions might be discovered in lots of heroes within the Marvel comics created by Stan Lee, like Spider-Man or Daredevil.
Researchers who’ve first-hand expertise of the care system have commented on the prevalence of stigmatising narratives round “injury” and adverse stereotypes related to expertise of care, alongside idealised “happy-ever-after” foundling tales.
Necessary work is being executed to archive the work of creators with expertise of the care system and to seize a wide range of care tales. Nevertheless, nuanced work taking into consideration the complexity of going by means of the care system is uncommon and public attitudes mirror dangerous misconceptions about younger folks residing in care.
In England, it’s estimated that at the least one in three kids who enter care are separated from their siblings. In Flock, Robbie is desperately ready for his 18th birthday, when he hopes he’ll be capable of reside reunited together with his sister Cel.
Whereas Robbie and Cel usually are not residing collectively, they discover methods to attach – taking journeys to McDonalds or going bowling. Sustaining connections with siblings, whereas typically advanced, could make an enormous distinction to supporting the sense of belonging, psychological well being and wellbeing skilled by younger folks in care.
Cel is likely one of the solely individuals who shares Robbie’s reminiscences of his nan and their valued moments along with her earlier than coming into care. There may be proof that sibling separation has a long-lasting influence for adults with expertise of care, related to sophisticated emotions of loss. Nevertheless, when planning for younger folks’s residing preparations, sibling reunification or connection just isn’t all the time prioritised.
Younger carers and their siblings
Sibling reunification just isn’t all the time simple. Whereas Cel loves Robbie, she usually feels extra like his mum or dad, and the accountability of supporting him to handle his feelings whereas she continues to be a baby weighs closely on her. Cel could be described as a younger carer, taking up every day duties and private take care of her sibling when adults weren’t ready to take action.
Whereas younger carers who’ve frolicked caring for a sibling do usually categorical feeling extra resourceful, better accountability and prioritising their sibling’s wants can influence their very own wellbeing. Cel goals of going to college and the liberty of leaving her accountability as an older sister, at the same time as she loves Robbie and needs the very best for him.
Cel just isn’t the one individual that Robbie can depend on. He additionally has a powerful connection together with his finest pal Miko (Deshaye Gayle) and considerably reluctantly meets together with his private advisor, Mrs Bosely (Jennifer Daley). As Robbie’s relationship with Cel comes underneath menace, these connections change into particularly necessary.
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Coming into care could cause disruption to greater than sibling relationships. Youngsters usually lose contact with household, pals and communities and sometimes transfer college and neighbourhood. Most younger folks residing in care, like Robbie, have had troublesome and presumably traumatic early experiences earlier than, throughout and after shifting into care.
After troublesome early experiences, some younger folks could expertise adjustments to their mind and behavior that enables them to outlive loss, neglect or abuse. These variations could seem like an elevated alertness to hazard or an unwillingness to belief others.
Whereas these adjustments could assist kids keep secure when residing in unsafe circumstances, they could additionally make it more durable to keep up shut relationships. This adverse influence of those comprehensible variations on relationships known as “social thinning”. At moments, Robbie’s distrust is evident – when he fears that Miko is barely his pal out of pity or when he finds it arduous to simply accept any help Bosely gives him. Nevertheless, we additionally see that the constant, heat and understanding help of Miko and Bosely helps Robbie to remain related in his lowest moments.
This play represents each the very troublesome experiences of younger folks residing in care, alongside actual moments of pleasure, energy, hope and connection. Flock offers a refreshing and much-needed story of the advanced actuality of the lives of younger folks residing in care within the UK, placing actual voices at its centre.
Flock is on on the Soho Theatre, London till November 2, when it embarks on a UK tour.
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