DEAR DEIDRE: My husband is humorous and common, so why does he really feel the necessity to lie?
Generally he tells so many various variations of what has actually occurred, that even I get confused. I’m 41 and he’s 45.
I don’t assume he’s ever severely deceitful however all these small untruths unnerve me.
Why does he really feel the necessity to always alter the reality for others?
For instance he was made Worker Of The Month award not too long ago however advised his mum that he was Worker Of The Yr.
It makes me assume he’s hiding one thing.
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DEIDRE SAYS: Individuals who lie usually had been introduced as much as really feel insecure – they misinform keep away from getting in bother, or embellish the reality to appear extra fascinating.
Some adults discover it arduous to let this go.
Slightly than confront your husband, you’ll be able to present him that you’re pleased with him, by gently saying how good it was that he received the Worker Of The Month award.
Hopefully, his shallowness might then enhance and hopefully the urge to fib would possibly diminish.