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Tom Schwartz revealed if he was “embarrassed” by former flame Jo Wenberg after she suspected such on the most recent episode of Vanderpump Guidelines.
As a number of members of the forged shaded him for unfairly main Jo on, Schwartz, 40, seemed again on their time collectively, admitting he was in a troublesome place with the hairstylist however insisting that the 2 of them had a “clear line of communication.”
“I wasn’t embarrassed by her,” Schwartz clarified on the April 9 episode of the Vanderpump Guidelines: After Present.
Throughout Tuesday’s episode, Jo tagged alongside as Schwartz attended a singles evening, and unsurprisingly, issues received a bit awkward after Schwartz kissed one other girl.
“By that time, I had made up my thoughts definitively that I didn’t wish to be in a relationship with Jo,” he recalled.
However when requested if Jo was merely a rebound from his damaged marriage to Katie Maloney, 37, Schwartz denied any such factor, confirming she was extra than simply that.
“I don’t wish to relegate her to a rebound woman as a result of I don’t assume she was. We grew to become actually shut buddies, too. It wasn’t simply an occasional hookup buddy,” he acknowledged. “We have been tremendous tight. However I nonetheless was so f*cking keen on her so I used to be making an attempt to navigate. It’s a troublesome place as a result of when somebody digs you and you continue to wish to preserve an in depth friendship however you’re prepared to maneuver on, I don’t know if it’s lifelike or wholesome.”
Months after their singles evening drama, and weeks after going public along with his new girlfriend, Sophia Skoro, 23, Schwartz stated that his relationship with Jo is “a considerably watered-down model of what it was once,” though they’re “nonetheless buddies.”
“I feel she’s hanging out with any person, I’m hanging out with any person. We’re tremendous cool. There’s undoubtedly no dangerous blood or onerous emotions. [And] I don’t remorse it,” he stated of their romance. “It was tremendous enjoyable. I feel we actually enriched one another’s lives for that stretch.”
Trying again at singles evening, Schwartz stated he’s not one to go to these varieties of occasions and “had no expectations” going into it. He then stated that Jo “form of invited herself.”
“But in addition, at that time, we had talked about … We had informally moved on …. I assumed we have been on the identical web page,” he famous.
Whereas Schwartz’s time with Jo was short-lived, he seemed again lovingly on their relationship, saying Jo “got here into [his] life like a bat out of heaven” and denying he tried to cover her.
“It simply felt proper however on the identical time, it felt prefer it perhaps had a restricted shelf life … It was like a supernova or one thing,” he defined.
In the meantime, James Kennedy, 32, and Brock Davies, 33, urged Schwartz ought to have been extra clear with Jo about the place their relationship was headed.
“I at all times felt like Jo was in love with Schwartz, after which Schwartz would simply name her after a bottle of Good Lovin’ on a Tuesday evening. At 2 a.m., textual content comes via, ‘Hey, the place you at?’ It’s form of f*cked as much as say, however I really feel like Schwartz was main her on,” James suspected. “Her feelings have been all in, one hundred pc. I felt dangerous.”
“I used to be involved due to the quantity of emotion I might get from her after which what I received from Schwartz on the connection was not the identical response. I used to be like, ‘It’s good to clear this up,’” Brock agreed, including that Schwartz “likes limbo … [and] confusion.”
In line with Ariana Madix, 38, Schwartz’s remedy of Jo was harking back to how he handled Katie early on of their romance.
“I don’t know, simply supplying you with the ring on a string,” she acknowledged.
“Simply sufficient to maintain you hanging on,” Katie replied.
“However there’s a promise of one thing, ultimately,” Ariana continued. “You and Tom Sandoval are in all probability the one individuals who have ever flown to North Florida to see Tom Schwartz’s household, and now Jo is the third individual. And for those who’re sitting there and also you’re Jo, you’re in all probability considering, ‘The one different woman that’s performed that is his ex-wife.’ Why wouldn’t you assume that’s your boyfriend? I might assume that.”
Then, when Katie urged that Schwartz made it appear to be he didn’t invite her, Ariana requested, “Properly, how did she get the tackle? They clearly did a whole lot of planning.”
Reflecting on her personal experiences, Scheana Shay, 38, stated her former flame Adam Spott did the identical factor along with her.
“[He] introduced me house to fulfill the household for his brother’s shock birthday, however everybody there thought we have been courting, however he’s like, ‘No, no, we’re not,’” she recalled.
Additionally on the Pump Guidelines: After Present, Schwartz stated he didn’t really feel that he led Jo on.
“We at all times stored a transparent line of communication. If it wasn’t for that, I might in all probability say responsible as charged. The summer season earlier than was simply totally different as a result of it was kinda fiery and passionate and enjoyable and loopy. However by the point we had cameras up and we have been filming, it simply wasn’t the identical. It had type of fizzled out,” he defined.
Vanderpump Guidelines season 11 airs Tuesdays at 8/7c on Bravo.